A close friend's mother has fallen seriously ill, and the outlook is not so good. Their family has endured more than its share of trials - much more than I can possibly imagine ever happening to myself, but I say this not with pity, but with admiration. Although what they've been through would make most people delve into a well of self-pity, and turn bitter and hard, each member that I know has emerged as kind, caring, sensitive, witty and thoughtful individuals. I can only hope that I can one day handle tragedy with such grace and strength. My thoughts are with them tonight.